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which one

turbo build
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engagement ring
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Lurch320i
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Tue Jun 04, 2013 8:57 pm

Alright guys Ive got a dilemma.just sold a car and Ive got some spare cash now.what do i spend it on?
Im building an m20 turbo so could spend on management,a nice custom exhaust and custom brakes or i could buy the misses an engagement ring
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Tue Jun 04, 2013 9:03 pm

If you are debating it, she isn't the one for you mate.
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Tue Jun 04, 2013 9:05 pm

Well said Ross 8O
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Tue Jun 04, 2013 9:11 pm

To be fair to her she is amazing.she puts up with alot.our back garden looking like a scrapyard for E30s. my shed being full of carparts. wheels in the front garden. My addiction to E30zone and aload of other things car related

i do want to give her a ring.its just a case of affording the one she wants/likes
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Tue Jun 04, 2013 10:26 pm

Lurch320i wrote: just a case of affording the one she wants/likes
If she has expensive tastes you defo should do the turbo. It will work out infinitely cheaper in the long run
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Tue Jun 04, 2013 10:47 pm

diable wrote:Engagement rings are so old fashioned buy her a Turbo Management System instead, she will love you even more for you thoughtfulness and self sacrifice :D
just to let you know.i don't plan on proposing to my car :-D
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 12:12 am

No harm in getting the ring,( the one she wants)as long as she appriciates the sacrifice,and knows the Turbo is still on the cards (the one you want), albeit when your wallet has recovered!
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 12:32 am

If your contemplating a potential wife over a "turbo" somethings wrong there mate,

The car will allways be there to pick up where you left off, your gal won't! Put a ring on it,
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 7:56 am

have you started the turbo yet :D
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:02 am

Lurch320i wrote:Alright guys Ive got a dilemma.just sold a car and Ive got some spare cash now.what do i spend it on?
Im building an m20 turbo so could spend on management,a nice custom exhaust and custom brakes or i could buy the misses an engagement ring
Dooont go for the engagement ring mate.

I did that last year and its cost me a fortune subsequently. Why not pay to have her name engraved in the turbo housing. :D
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:30 am

Can't really make a valid judgement without pics :)
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:37 am

If you like it, then you should put a ring on it...! :D

I agree with Rossy, though!
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:40 am

Split the difference, just buy a 'surprise' cheaper (but not cheap, obviously) ring and then get the management and leave out the brakes!!
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:43 am

One of the girls in my office got engaged, and her fella bought himself a ring.....8O and give her £50 that was left over, towards her one.

Who says romance is dead? :D
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:49 am

Is she expecting you to propose? Or are you already engaged and not got the perfect ring?

If the proposal is to be a pure out of the surprise that she's not expecting, then she'll never know you planned on doing it, and won't miss it when you plough the money into your turbo build.

If she is expecting it, then for the sake of your happy relationship, I'd buy the ring.
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:04 am

mrs stew is a jeweller and could do you a good deal on a handmade ring (but to be clear we're not talking elizabeth duke prices here), so you could get a decent ring and have money left to spend on the car. Mrs stew could then buy me a new telly. Win, win, win.
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:00 pm

If you had the choice of keeping the woman or the car forever, which would it be?
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:38 pm

If you want to keep her, put a ring on her finger.

Turbo build can wait.

Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also :D
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:41 pm

Spend more - a lot more if she does anal! :D
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:56 pm

If you love her and she loves you, then a needlessly expensive lump of jewellery shouldn't make any difference to the strength of your relationship.

However, if a snail is the only way your relationship with your E30 can grow, then that's the sacrifice you have to make to keep the car. Buy the turbo.
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:23 pm

Have heard that Costco sells better diamonds for lesser than say a Tiffany's.
That's for all the stuff she has put up with, front yard, shed, backyard, E30zone and all.

Buy the Costco ring (don't show her the box) and the turbo management now.
Leave the custom exhaust and brakes for later.

Boost available all around.
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:34 pm

andyp wrote:have you started the turbo yet :D
Turbo build hasnt been started persay but Ive got alot of the parts ready to be put on.
So far i have
manifold
holset h1c turbo (needs a rebuild)
Intercooler and pipework
injectors
uprated head bolts
Innovate wideband o2 sensor
Oil pressure gauge and sender
oil filter relocation kit
And a few more parts Ive forgotten

i need a management system.exhaust making and oil lines for turbo then i can get it running
anyone know of a megasquirt for sale?

Im thinking of spending a bit on both the car and her ring considering the poll is 50% either way
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:36 pm

Topblag wrote:Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also :D
She doesn't like gold.she wants platinum with one big diamond then a few diamonds either side of it
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:32 pm

Lurch320i wrote:
Topblag wrote:Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also :D
She doesn't like gold.she wants platinum with one big diamond then a few diamonds either side of it
Theres your answer. Kick her into touch!

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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:44 pm

B7 wrote:
Lurch320i wrote:
Topblag wrote:Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also :D
She doesn't like gold.she wants platinum with one big diamond then a few diamonds either side of it
Theres your answer. Kick her into touch!

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Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:56 pm

So you've already been discussing engagement rings?
shaky ground dude!
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:00 pm

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There are some deviants in the world.

Buy the lady the ring, a car can wait indefinitely, a lady worth having will not.
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Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:08 pm

Morat wrote:So you've already been discussing engagement rings?
shaky ground dude!
yes we've discussed it.hence why i know what kind of ring she wants.im useless with shopping for that kind of stuff.car bits and food im good with but pansy emotional stuff im crap at Haha
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Wed Jun 12, 2013 10:53 pm

Ok progress.i have gone and bought myself a megasquirt ecu and its going to be modified by Phil at extraefi.

Anybody know what i need to do about modifying my current loom to accept the MS?
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Wed Jun 12, 2013 10:57 pm

Lol
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Sat Nov 16, 2013 10:41 pm

Thought id update this.i bought a nice ring for the misses (which she loves and said yes) and i also bought a megasquirt.turbo build is off the cards for now as i want to get the car mint and the rust sorted.

Thanks for the input guys.your all a true credit to the zone :-D
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Sun Nov 17, 2013 2:04 pm

HUGE amount of "brownie" points there mate.

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Sun Nov 17, 2013 3:16 pm

We need pics of her ring now, itz the rulez ! :)
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Sun Nov 17, 2013 3:30 pm

pacerpete wrote:We need pics of her ring now, itz the rulez ! :)
Personally, I wouldn't mind seeing the mega squirt too. :eek:
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