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Lurch320i
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Alright guys Ive got a dilemma.just sold a car and Ive got some spare cash now.what do i spend it on?
Im building an m20 turbo so could spend on management,a nice custom exhaust and custom brakes or i could buy the misses an engagement ring
Im building an m20 turbo so could spend on management,a nice custom exhaust and custom brakes or i could buy the misses an engagement ring
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ross_jsy
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If you are debating it, she isn't the one for you mate.
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beemerbird
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Well said Ross 
If it ain't broke, fix it till it is
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Lurch320i
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To be fair to her she is amazing.she puts up with alot.our back garden looking like a scrapyard for E30s. my shed being full of carparts. wheels in the front garden. My addiction to E30zone and aload of other things car related
i do want to give her a ring.its just a case of affording the one she wants/likes
i do want to give her a ring.its just a case of affording the one she wants/likes
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retroboyo
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If she has expensive tastes you defo should do the turbo. It will work out infinitely cheaper in the long runLurch320i wrote: just a case of affording the one she wants/likes
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Lurch320i
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just to let you know.i don't plan on proposing to my cardiable wrote:Engagement rings are so old fashioned buy her a Turbo Management System instead, she will love you even more for you thoughtfulness and self sacrifice
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ajay
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No harm in getting the ring,( the one she wants)as long as she appriciates the sacrifice,and knows the Turbo is still on the cards (the one you want), albeit when your wallet has recovered!
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bmw9818
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If your contemplating a potential wife over a "turbo" somethings wrong there mate,
The car will allways be there to pick up where you left off, your gal won't! Put a ring on it,
The car will allways be there to pick up where you left off, your gal won't! Put a ring on it,
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andyp
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have you started the turbo yet 
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scjimbo
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Dooont go for the engagement ring mate.Lurch320i wrote:Alright guys Ive got a dilemma.just sold a car and Ive got some spare cash now.what do i spend it on?
Im building an m20 turbo so could spend on management,a nice custom exhaust and custom brakes or i could buy the misses an engagement ring
I did that last year and its cost me a fortune subsequently. Why not pay to have her name engraved in the turbo housing.
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Morat
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Can't really make a valid judgement without pics 
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Gert_8
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If you like it, then you should put a ring on it...!
I agree with Rossy, though!
I agree with Rossy, though!

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iDreamBeemer
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Split the difference, just buy a 'surprise' cheaper (but not cheap, obviously) ring and then get the management and leave out the brakes!!
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Gert_8
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One of the girls in my office got engaged, and her fella bought himself a ring.....
and give her £50 that was left over, towards her one.
Who says romance is dead?
Who says romance is dead?

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Chris_B86
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Is she expecting you to propose? Or are you already engaged and not got the perfect ring?
If the proposal is to be a pure out of the surprise that she's not expecting, then she'll never know you planned on doing it, and won't miss it when you plough the money into your turbo build.
If she is expecting it, then for the sake of your happy relationship, I'd buy the ring.
If the proposal is to be a pure out of the surprise that she's not expecting, then she'll never know you planned on doing it, and won't miss it when you plough the money into your turbo build.
If she is expecting it, then for the sake of your happy relationship, I'd buy the ring.

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stew72
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mrs stew is a jeweller and could do you a good deal on a handmade ring (but to be clear we're not talking elizabeth duke prices here), so you could get a decent ring and have money left to spend on the car. Mrs stew could then buy me a new telly. Win, win, win.
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Morat
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If you had the choice of keeping the woman or the car forever, which would it be?
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Topblag
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If you want to keep her, put a ring on her finger.
Turbo build can wait.
Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also
Turbo build can wait.
Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also
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Gert_8
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Spend more - a lot more if she does anal! 

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Grrrmachine
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If you love her and she loves you, then a needlessly expensive lump of jewellery shouldn't make any difference to the strength of your relationship.
However, if a snail is the only way your relationship with your E30 can grow, then that's the sacrifice you have to make to keep the car. Buy the turbo.
However, if a snail is the only way your relationship with your E30 can grow, then that's the sacrifice you have to make to keep the car. Buy the turbo.
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Automaton
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Have heard that Costco sells better diamonds for lesser than say a Tiffany's.
That's for all the stuff she has put up with, front yard, shed, backyard, E30zone and all.
Buy the Costco ring (don't show her the box) and the turbo management now.
Leave the custom exhaust and brakes for later.
Boost available all around.
That's for all the stuff she has put up with, front yard, shed, backyard, E30zone and all.
Buy the Costco ring (don't show her the box) and the turbo management now.
Leave the custom exhaust and brakes for later.
Boost available all around.
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Lurch320i
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Turbo build hasnt been started persay but Ive got alot of the parts ready to be put on.andyp wrote:have you started the turbo yet
So far i have
manifold
holset h1c turbo (needs a rebuild)
Intercooler and pipework
injectors
uprated head bolts
Innovate wideband o2 sensor
Oil pressure gauge and sender
oil filter relocation kit
And a few more parts Ive forgotten
i need a management system.exhaust making and oil lines for turbo then i can get it running
anyone know of a megasquirt for sale?
Im thinking of spending a bit on both the car and her ring considering the poll is 50% either way
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Lurch320i
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She doesn't like gold.she wants platinum with one big diamond then a few diamonds either side of itTopblag wrote:Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also
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B7
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Theres your answer. Kick her into touch!Lurch320i wrote:She doesn't like gold.she wants platinum with one big diamond then a few diamonds either side of itTopblag wrote:Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also
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Lurch320i
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Haha if only.she'd kick the crap out of meB7 wrote:Theres your answer. Kick her into touch!Lurch320i wrote:She doesn't like gold.she wants platinum with one big diamond then a few diamonds either side of itTopblag wrote:Diamonds and gold continue to appreciate also
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Morat
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So you've already been discussing engagement rings?
shaky ground dude!
shaky ground dude!
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bab-91
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There are some deviants in the world.
Buy the lady the ring, a car can wait indefinitely, a lady worth having will not.
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Lurch320i
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yes we've discussed it.hence why i know what kind of ring she wants.im useless with shopping for that kind of stuff.car bits and food im good with but pansy emotional stuff im crap at HahaMorat wrote:So you've already been discussing engagement rings?
shaky ground dude!
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Lurch320i
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Ok progress.i have gone and bought myself a megasquirt ecu and its going to be modified by Phil at extraefi.
Anybody know what i need to do about modifying my current loom to accept the MS?
Anybody know what i need to do about modifying my current loom to accept the MS?
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beemerbird
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Lol
If it ain't broke, fix it till it is
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Lurch320i
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Thought id update this.i bought a nice ring for the misses (which she loves and said yes) and i also bought a megasquirt.turbo build is off the cards for now as i want to get the car mint and the rust sorted.
Thanks for the input guys.your all a true credit to the zone
Thanks for the input guys.your all a true credit to the zone
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martauto
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HUGE amount of "brownie" points there mate.
Mart.
Mart.
Only the E46 cab left now.
Just got too old.
Just got too old.
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pacerpete
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We need pics of her ring now, itz the rulez ! 
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gooner1
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Personally, I wouldn't mind seeing the mega squirt too.pacerpete wrote:We need pics of her ring now, itz the rulez !

