I assumed that the relay used in this position was the same as the other orange ones.
If it is, then it's definitely terminal 85 that needs a new spade connected (vacant at the moment) and terminal 86 that goes to the circuit board (no wire to be seen but you can see the soldering on the reverse of the board.).
By heater loom connector, do you mean the white/transparent 5 pin connector inside the fusebox meant to connect the (dealer retrofit?) A/C? I already found that the +ve for the thermoswitch (from F19) had to be taken from there, but I'm not sure if I checked continuity between one of the remaining 4 wires and K1/86. Will check tomorrow first thing.
By the way, as I didn't research on here first, I did undo the torx screw... good job the battery was disconnected! Could have done some damage otherwise






