Right, here's some photos; partly for the sake of the archive, partly for opinions.
I got all my exhaust bits out of the basement and mock-fitted them to see what a full system looks like. So this is a standard two-piece system from a facelift 320i with a catalyzer. Not shown are the twin 3-to-1 manifolds:
Now this is my proposed solution. An original Hartge manifold (H26, I think), running to a 323i mid section with the same rear section as before:
As you can see from this pic, the Hartge pipes have been flared and sized exactly to fit into the 323i centre box. This isn't my doing, so I'm guessing the previous owner used the same method. Really grateful to jmc330i for showing me how the gasket rings work here:
And this is my minor dilemma. I don't want to cut the rear section, since I have a funny feeling the MOT man will want to see my catalyzer once a year. But I don't want the ballache of owning two full exhausts, so I'm thinking of cutting the rear pipes off the 323i centre box and using the same flared connections as before:
It's a pretty tight fit though! I COULD buy a cheapie 323i rear box too for fifty quid and save myself the hassle of customising the centre box, but I need to offer the whole lot up to the car first to see just how much I would need to remove from the centre box in order to flare-and-flange it.