Guys,
I have to wait 2 months for a new manifold!!!
Hottuning say that every manifold they have in stock has the same problem!
They have confirmed that the defect is that the flange has indeed been welded on the wrong way round on the back section.
They say someone else has reported it as well and I have had a guy from the zone pm me saying he has the same problem.
Hottuning told me it should fit for the time being as their other customer with the problem managed to get it to fit without any apparent leaks.
However, we couldn't get it to fit without leaking and i'm not prepared to drive it around like that so we dug my old rusty bits out of the metal skip and put them back on for now.
Makes me wonder though, if the other guy managed to fit it and it didn't leak, are there any other e30s out there with this manifold that have sealed ok but the pipes aren't lined up properly?

If you placed the gaskets over the studs in the head and then put the pipes on, you might not notice, just like we didn't the first time!
Hottuning have been pretty good so far since, always quick to respond to my emails, although i get the feeling we're not always on the same wavelength. They have offered to compensate me, although i don't know how much yet, and even offered to send a new defective manifold to see if it would fit any better for the time being, can't see it making any difference though!
So obviously all of you that have got new ht manifolds or are getting them, for pete's sake check the gaskets against the pipes before you fit them!
Cheers,
Max