this is my DIY coilover next to a standard M3 strut (which has stroke shortened Bilsteins).
Both legs shown in this picture have the same rebound length.
Can yousee the flat wound helper spring on top? This will fully collaps when the cars weight is on the strut.
Your damper will not extend all the way up (out) when the car is sitting on it's wheels, keep that in mind. You need some "negative" travel in your suspension when going over bumps or your tyre will loose ground contact.
That is a picture with the car sitting on axle stands.
The position of the lower spring perch is NOT where it finally ended up, this was just wound down to fit the springs without tension. The real setup is about 2-3 inch higher up
What is your rear setup? ARB's?
I still have the Billie's from the struts shown above but think the rebound will be too short for what you are planning to run.
And yes, 800lbs is stiff. But the speed you can turn in with a setup like this is staggering
I think you are making yourself more trouble than you need with coil overs just for a road car. A good set of springs and dampers is doing the trick just fine.