what time does the lulworth meet start and whats the general plan ?
i like the hill of course,and has all the points you stated and just a 10 min drive for me, but on a sunday its very busy, end up huddled in a corner, takes 20 mins to que for something to eat or a que you look at and think "sod that" and dont bother

and generally its packed with cars
broadmarsh say- we could even take a few portable bbqs and cook our own easily enough with lots of space, nice sea view too and better ability to line all the e30s up niceley for some super pics,and only 1 or 2 mile drive for anyone wanting a boiger from micks on the way
the trundle up overlooking goodwood would also make for a nice meet- really fantastic views and some nice cruising roads on route, although that probably gets busy on a nice sunday with walkers/dog walkers etc, must be some other places we can think off ?