Quick update...
So I painted the exhaust with Rust-Oleum Hard Hat High Temp Paint.
Turned out great and I can highly recommend the product.
Got the car back today and...

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I feel like I am driving a new car
Unfortunately I wasn't able to get the broken exhaust manifold stud done as it will need to be an engine out or head off scenario to do all the studs and bolts properly, it is all rusted pretty bad.. so will have to wait till next time.
But even so, its almost like she has taken a massive deep breath in order to breath properly again... its easy to forget how important the exhaust system is...
Costly but I have a legit BMW exhaust with everything exhaust related replaced and althoughnot great value for money, definately worth while doing...
Still looking for what seem to be elusive tail pipe tips...
