As the last few years of my e30s service history is missing and the previous owner didn't really do alot to it, I thought it would be an idea to give it a proper service. Bought myself a set of new sparks today and a spark plug spanner but I didn't get very far as I couldn't get the first one I tried out. Because the plug is such a long way down I couldn't really see what the end of the spanner was doing, I could feel it gripping briefly but it just kept slipping off. I tried the tool with one of the new sparks and it only just goes far enough in to grip the hexagonal bit of the plug so that may be the problem, so maybe I'm using the wrong type of tool but I have no idea.
The tool I'm using is this one:

Could do with some advice on this before I either break something by accident, or break something deliberately out of anger and frustration...
Cheers!