An update for those who are interested:
The car was initially listed (and is now back up) on eBay by the brother of the guy selling it. The brother is the one actually came and bought the car from me, on his brother's behalf. The brother is knowledgeable and reasonable, the seller not so much!
I had offered 6k for the car when I saw it in person, and then went to get insurance quotes and during that time reality set in and the physical condition of the car became more real vs how I remembered it in my head. For info - most of the front end (valence, wings and front doors) have been poorly resprayed over red panels some time ago prior to me, presumably after an accident. There are holes at the top and bottom of the drivers door (a mint spare is with the car tbh), and there are two small patches right behind the rear wheels. & obviously the hole in the arch as above ^
The seller then didn't actually get the car welded or repaired at all, it was just "looked at" and quoted, without any metal being taken back to accurately assess the situation, and the pictures of the repair panels he sent me were just from ebay and he hadn't even bought them. No mention of name of the body shop or anything.
I then asked if we could renegotiate as I wasn't interested in the spare discs & rear shocks that he'd bought so he could sell those himself to recoup some money. This rubbed him the wrong way and he got all aggravated and defensive saying he'd sent me loads of pictures etc etc.
SO - the current state of the car is:
* no rust treated at all since I sold it for high £4,000
* lowered with gaz shocks at the front with no name random springs, and without replacing the top mounts
* apex springs at the back on Bilstein B4's (which I had fitted alongside new top mounts)
* a few cosmetic bits like new bonnet badge, tinted indicators at the front, a replica IS lip, and a fitted headunit and new speakers
* got crashed into at the back so he sourced a new rear bumper and had it painted to match. The centre black strip now doesn't fit correctly the RL tail light has spider cracks in it
* car is also pulling to the left when driving
He then advertised it on his instagram, had someone come and offer £4000 after getting home and reviewing the state of the car. He was annoyed at this person yet has had ZERO other interest of offers so I suggested that somewhere between 4k and 6k is probably accurate for the right buyer.
Basically someone could get a good deal on a genuine car with great interior if they can afford to spend some money sorting the suspension out properly and addressing the rust in a time frame they're comfortable with. However, he genuinely doesn't grasp the fact that money on mods =/= added value. Eg he bought new sunroof seals from BMW but hasn't fitted them, thinks that's adding a bunch of value, OR has bought a period BMW phone and fitted it in the front centre console space. Also thinking that general maintenance like a new rocker cover gasket & fixing power steering pipe leaks are something to be praised & not just part and parcel of owning a classic car. His care of it has barely scrapped above minimum yet he shouts about loving the car and will regret selling etc etc
I genuinely wish anyone luck in dealing with Robert but also hope someone from here buys it and actually loves it and gets her going properly again. My for sale ad for the car is still live in the relevant forum section if anyone's interested.
2 and a bit years ago it had - poly subframe mounts, OE trailing arm bushes, offset poly FLCAB, braided brake hoses, new clutch, rear shocks & mounts, poly diff mount, InjectorTune cleaned injectors, OE intake boot, dash mat etc
TLDR:
Insurance quotes came back several hundred pounds more than I was anticipating, combined with the rust I would have needed to address so I asked for more money off in a negotiation because the body condition is average & rust needs sorting - essentially told "in no rush to sell, know what I've got" by the most clueless seller. Anyone who brings up a genuine reason for wanting to lower price is impacting the perfect picture of the car in his head and gets his back up. He is selling the car as he's moving to the coast to live with his gf and the car is currently stored in a disused house garage in Romford (ULEZ) and he needs the money to help fund the move (so there is a genuine time pressure for him selling the car)
It's his first and only other/enthusiast/classic car he's ever had and first time selling a 2nd hand car by the gist of things.
The ebay ad is here:
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/175730954744 ... R-r8-oCGYg
Sorry for the rant & no one might care but it's been on my mind lol!!