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POLL Wife / girlfriend spend objections

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:22 pm
by lefty325i
How many of you have objections from ur wives, girlfriends on how much u spend on ur e30?

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:24 pm
by cliffybabe
My girlfriend tells me to spend more she even bought things as a suprise before mad aint she

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:26 pm
by lefty325i
cliffybabe wrote:My girlfriend tells me to spend more she even bought things as a suprise before mad aint she
Ur lucky my wife tells me to grow up and cracks up on how much i spend on my car.

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:30 pm
by Morat
If it wasn't for the GF I'd have MS, a turbo, a respray and be running on fully synth oilchanges every 3k. I'd also be living in the car and eating half a can of baked beans a week. Sometimes they're right... just don't admit it too often ;)

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:31 pm
by Cloggy Saint
My wife doesn't bitch about what i spend on the car, and i keep quiet over how much she spends at the hairdressers!

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:33 pm
by lefty325i
Don't mind if its thousands every month but she says im not allowed my alpina reps and alpina steering wheel...(gettin them anyway) winkeye

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:36 pm
by lefty325i
datourer wrote:My wife doesn't bitch about what i spend on the car, and i keep quiet over how much she spends at the hairdressers!
Well i keep things quiet now on how much i spend says im sad for going to car shows, u gotta draw the line somewhere :bmw:

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:41 pm
by bmpaul
mate its ur car, your cash spend it how you like!!

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:42 pm
by Ratfink
My mrs wants rid of it so we can have more old cars!

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:44 pm
by lefty325i
Ratfink wrote:My mrs wants rid of it so we can have more old cars!
My mrs wants rid of my e12 528

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 5:45 pm
by lefty325i
bmpaul wrote:mate its ur car, your cash spend it how you like!!
You think my way winkeye

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:11 pm
by H35-IAN
no girl would ever tell me wat to do ever again!! or woman for that....

only female id take a order off is my mum and thats because she deserves serious respect! but the average woman is a selfish bastard nowadays... :cool: fuk that id spend it all on me....

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:43 pm
by Bob_S
I'm with Ian, car or the bird? the car screw the bird can find another one

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:52 pm
by dobbie82
I only give my other half grief for wasting money though indecision, like spending £400+ on getting this 318i through its MOT and giving it a full service, then saying he would take £350 for it!!

He wants to respray it or certainly do the arches, ive said i am happy to spend th money if I can keep it, but no doubt he will sell it for £500 a few months after a £1500 respray!

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:56 pm
by DRIFTBOY
My girlfriend resents my 335 because I'm spending too much time working on it! (and she wants me to keep the twin turbo RX7 - but it's got to go to pay for the BMW!).

She hates the BMW and says "It can't give you hugs and kisses, like me!".

I said "Yeah, but you haven't got 250bhp darling" and I got thumped!

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:59 pm
by dazleeds
haa haa

i dnt get any of this grief winkeye

she used to moan but then she realised i just spent more if she did :wink:

she has now got the e30bug and so far this week has bought a new set of ATS cup alloys/car is in garage now having clutch done

she,s also just forked 150 on new speakers for her Is and is planning to spend more all the time

so she cant moan at me anymore ever :clap:

---------------------------------------------------

Dobbie i say slap that man :lol:
failing that when the cars sprayed give himmy no winkeye
500quid bloody bargain

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:00 pm
by lefty325i
DRIFTBOY wrote:My girlfriend resents my 335 because I'm spending too much time working on it! (and she wants me to keep the twin turbo RX7 - but it's got to go to pay for the BMW!).

She hates the BMW and says "It can't give you hugs and kisses, like me!".

I said "Yeah, but you haven't got 250bhp darling" and I got thumped!
:lol: :lol: :lol:

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:05 pm
by miniblob
Everyone moans that i spend & waste too much money - and they're all right!!!!! Got some kind of twitch that keeps forcing my wallet out onto the counter winkeye

Girlfriend doesn't mind me wasting money as such, but whinges that i prefer cars to her and i don't spend enough time with her, blah, blah!!!!

I don't listen to anyone though - do what i like really....... so that's why they call me 'lawless' at work!!!

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:40 pm
by fuzzy
shed rather i spent my cash on my car than other 'interests' winkeye .she thinks im mad to spend thousands on an old car but doesnt complain

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:53 pm
by appletree
its not just about the money, i get greif for spending to much time working/playing about with my car! instead of spending time with her! :D

Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:02 pm
by stuartgallafant
miniblob wrote:Girlfriend doesn't mind me wasting money as such, but whinges that i prefer cars to her and i don't spend enough time with her, blah, blah!!!
i get this! "you love your car more than me :cry: blah, blah, bullshit"

and i just say, "no babe, not more, just in a different way!!!!"

WHACK!!! ouch...

she also complains about how much i spend, coz she'd rather i spent my hard-earned on "together-things"... WTF!!!

i never tell her how much i earn from my private jobs either, coz i know she'll wanna go out fot dinner at THE most expensive restaurant!!

but the other day, i got to get my own back, coz she spent £150 in TopShop in half an hour! HALF AN HOUR!!!! £150.... love, what is going on.....

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 10:24 am
by Mahmood
I used to get grief but now whatever I spend on the car she spends on herself.

When I bought my last Sport, she didn't spend 000s like I did, but she got herself a £500 handbag!

When I bought the Cab. I can't remember what she treated herself to but Tesco Visa rang to tell me about an irregular spending pattern on my card and over the phone went through all the shops she'd been to winkeye and I had to confirm it was OK.

:cool:

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 10:33 am
by cliffybabe
stuartgallafant wrote: i get this! "you love your car more than me :cry: blah, blah, bullshit"

and i just say, "no babe, not more, just in a different way!!!!"

WHACK!!! ouch...

she also complains about how much i spend, coz she'd rather i spent my hard-earned on "together-things"... WTF!!!

i never tell her how much i earn from my private jobs either, coz i know she'll wanna go out fot dinner at THE most expensive restaurant!!

but the other day, i got to get my own back, coz she spent £150 in TopShop in half an hour! HALF AN HOUR!!!! £150.... love, what is going on.....
Stu this cracked me up mate, I think Char aint all there got home last night after getting the scorp and springs and she turned round and said ill treat for the springs I was in shock and said leave off but then she turned round and said i want to buy u something cos i know how happy u r when working on the car and driving it.

She aint normal

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 10:36 am
by danny_j
The girlfriend hates the car.... She aboultley hates it.

She keeps on at me to sell it and buy an A4 or put a deposite down on a place...

Way i look at it, the minute she decides she wants to suck dick i might consider it winkeye

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 10:42 am
by cliffybabe
danny_j wrote:The girlfriend hates the car.... She aboultley hates it.

She keeps on at me to sell it and buy an A4 or put a deposite down on a place...

Way i look at it, the minute she decides she wants to suck dick i might consider it winkeye
:lol: :clap: :lol: :clap: :lol: :clap: :lol: :clap: :lol: :clap: :lol: :clap:

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 11:00 am
by dark_sounds
urggh i hate girls like this.... hence why my ex is now my ex,, with the occasional EHUM...

30-50£ on a nice together thing like a meal.... thats gonna get shitted out a few hours later....

loads of phone calls,, cos she wants to talk... bollox, its all money...

i solved most of the problem by getting one of my 3 accounts,, withdrawing all the way till limit,,, 1k overdraft... putting it into another acocunt and showing her my balance at the cash point.... sorry love....

to summarise.

money spent on girls = wasted.. they are ungrateful and will forget everyhting uve ever done for them as soon as you slip up the once...

money spent on car = a time of happiness and joy which you can feel, hear, enjoy everytime u sit and/or drive or just admire the car.

the girl can, and will get moody
whereas the car will never cause as much anguish

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 11:04 am
by cliffybabe
dark_sounds wrote:urggh i hate girls like this.... hence why my ex is now my ex,, with the occasional EHUM...

30-50£ on a nice together thing like a meal.... thats gonna get shitted out a few hours later....

loads of phone calls,, cos she wants to talk... bollox, its all money...

i solved most of the problem by getting one of my 3 accounts,, withdrawing all the way till limit,,, 1k overdraft... putting it into another acocunt and showing her my balance at the cash point.... sorry love....

to summarise.

money spent on girls = wasted.. they are ungrateful and will forget everyhting uve ever done for them as soon as you slip up the once...

money spent on car = a time of happiness and joy which you can feel, hear, enjoy everytime u sit and/or drive or just admire the car.

the girl can, and will get moody
whereas the car will never cause as much anguish
Ali stop it mate i ws nearly in tears reading this one, wicked my love the thats y my x is now my x :lol:

Re: POLL Wife / girlfriend spend objections

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 1:49 pm
by Cotty
lefty325i wrote:How many of you have objections from ur wives, girlfriends on how much u spend on ur e30?
None since I sacked her :wink:

I woman doesnt want a man to be happy when she isnt there, it makes some women feel insecure, it shows the man can be happy without them.

The women who dont want guys spending money on their cars is because they want the money spent on them. Get out earn more and stop sponging

money

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 4:44 pm
by elf
me and my missus have our own buissnesses
so she spends hers i spend mine.
morgage paid kids dont go without.And i dont go out every night
pissing it up the wall.
besides spent 20k on my car inlast five years and spent seven more
this year.
i,l never get that back and its only going for my enjoy ment.
my missus always wondering what ideas i,l come up with
next. good as gold she is you all get to meet her who going to
gaydon.
its our dirty weekend away from 3 kids.

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 6:42 pm
by stuartgallafant
ali, you have THE philosophy on life!!

however, we do need to keep some girls happy! after all, you cant f*ck your car!!!

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 6:44 pm
by dark_sounds
cant you.... but the exhaust is so perfect, bit of swarfega........ makes it tight as ... err ehum,,,,,,,

:mad: :wink: winkeye :twisted:

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 6:53 pm
by cliffybabe
dark_sounds wrote:cant you.... but the exhaust is so perfect, bit of swarfega........ makes it tight as ... err ehum,,,,,,,

:mad: :wink: winkeye :twisted:
thats why the boxers are there its a wiping rag winkeye

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 7:08 pm
by E30BeemerLad
whenever there is spending, even on essential maintenance there are sighs and eyes rolling :roll: lol

get more pissing and moaning for time spent on car forums, although that has got less since she acknowledged the level of help available, after she found oversteer in the soarer and twatted a sign post :roll: :roll: :P

generally though, cars n women don't mix, always a degree of compromise somewhere

but i could have done worse, she wants a beetle now or some other old shed to restore

still sticking a supra lump in an e30 though, biatch!
:P

Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 7:12 pm
by less2303
Found the ideal solution, got rid of her!!

Now I can have a complete broken sport in the kitchen, spread between a set of shelves I put up especially, and the kitchen table. :D

Posted: Sun Jul 16, 2006 2:50 am
by TommyC
stuartgallafant wrote:ali, you have THE philosophy on life!!

however, we do need to keep some girls happy! after all, you cant f*ck your car!!!

So what you're really saying there is.......

Women.... If you couldn't f**k them, you wouldn't have anything to do with them!!!

(a bloke i work with is always moaning about his wife, often refering to her as "a snake with tits")